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Henan Chinese Commercial News reporters Duan Yanchao and Shi Xisheng Fan Jiafu

Friends call her shopping, she did not dare to go, never again to travel too. Sometimes she felt with the community, "somewhat disjointed": One time, a friend told her about the fund, she replied, "I used to Mrs. Le chicken."

More "maddening" is that as children grow, rising prices, she found herself eager but unable to get out of full-time wife "vicious circle."

Her past

Like to travel, fancy clothes directly buy

This year 38 years old, she already has white hair. "I never thought I would become now." Sitting on the living cell corridor, Lee seems to have lost.

Lost, from the 2005 full-time wife began. In early 2004, Ms. Lee and her husband married, "we were introduced to the others, before marriage, he did sell a food company in Zhengzhou, more than 4,000 yuan a month during the peak season, when the season is less than 3,000 yuan a month."

At that time,chaussures nike tn pas cher, Ms. Lee in Guangdong doing accounting work is not tired, the monthly income of nearly 2000 yuan. Like to travel, fashion, slim her, "Wuhan, Suzhou have been to a lot of places, seen like clothes directly to buy."

Married that year, Lee returned to Zhengzhou after pregnancy. "My mother died early, her mother and father was over 60 years old, her mother to take care of paralyzed woman in bed milk,http://www13.plala.or.jp/gakuki3/cgi_bin/aska/aska.cgi, but also farming, it is to get away." She said.

2005, three months before labor,hogan, the resignation of Ms. Lee's husband home to take care of her. When she was 31 years old, belong to older mothers, before entering the operating room one day, her mother arrived in Zhengzhou.

Gave birth to a daughter three months later, her mother back home. "It was too much overhead, her husband got a job again,woolrich sito ufficiale, my daughter too, must bring their own." Since then, Ms. Lee to start full-time wife. A friend of Ms. Lee was a nanny to the children, "20 ceiling of 1,800 yuan,http://imtuku.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=355402&extra=," Lee felt that he went to work in addition nanny, "tantamount to a nanny to work."

"This is a full-time wife to do that for seven years before never thought I would do full-time wife." Lee looked helpless.

And Ms. Lee is different, many women want to do full-time wife. According to media reports, more than twenty thousand women in the workplace for investigation Forty per cent want to have children after marriage do full-time wife. Survey results showed that 35.58 percent of respondents believe that the greatest benefit of full-time wife is "free, you can arrange your own time."

She's now

Afraid to go shopping, feelings and social dislocation

In the year before the wedding, Ms. Lee and her husband in Zhengzhou City, a district bought a 120 m2 house, spent nearly 300,000 yuan. "Pay 70,000 down payment, mortgage nearly 2,http://www.goo-net.com/cgi-bin/goojp/bbs/thread_list.cgi,000 yuan per month." After her daughter was born, Lee found less of a person's salary, more than a mouth, "My husband's salary was calculated with flowers."

Over the years, a friend called Lee shopping with her "do not dare," is to add two silver-based Amoy clothes, but also taking advantage of the off-season discounts when buying. Shanghai World Expo, the friend shouted Lee to play last year, "I heard that only 80 yuan to buy a ticket, I would like to play with children,http://www13.plala.or.jp/gakuki3/cgi_bin/aska/aska.cgi, think about or forget."

Lee was born in rural areas,woolrich sito ufficiale, before marriage will do housework. "I do not hate housework, pretty diligent." Ms. Lee said her daughter 3 years old was sent to the district has more than 10 minutes away from the nursery, 1000 yuan per month. Now, her daily life is: get up at 7:10 am, 7:20 crying daughter to get up, put her daughter to kindergarten home to pack a house, and then just eat the night before the rest of the stuff, then generally 8:00 30 minutes or so, until 16:30 to pick up the child, one day very relaxed.

Occasionally, she was at the Internet, doing most is the district with the other full-time wife shopping,abercrombie pas cher, chat. "Sometimes, I felt somewhat out of touch with the community." Ms. Lee, for example, before marriage,air jordan spizike pas cher, she bought the fund,mulberry, the fund hottest 2007,nike tn pas cher france, when a friend called her to speak Fund, she replied, "I'm happy with Mrs. Chicken" .

Lee graduated from college, she said, the district there are many full-time wife, some are highly educated, "said the fast idle crazy."

And "Lee" are different, Ms. Lai work in the media,talon louboutin pas cher, resigned after children go home to do full-time wife, but "tolerance" less than three months blamed back units. "After doing a full-time wife and spend her husband's money, I did not dare to buy any new clothes. The key is I can not stand the feeling of doing nothing. Then I asked the nurse, back to work." Ms. Lai said.

Her future

Full-time wife's inability to escape the "vicious circle"

Ms. Lee's husband has now risen manager, the monthly salary of 5,000 yuan. Lee consideration is the daughter of next year to be in elementary school,piumino moncler outlet, on public primary, to care relationship acquaintances, have to pay school fee, "a thought which bored and want to go to work."

Lee also tried, but found not afford full-time wife escaped the "vicious circle" because "vicious circle" of the knot - children. One of my friends had recommended to her telephone customer service jobs, 1,500 yuan monthly salary. "There is not, the child how to do, 17:00 nursery school, where to work can not find work on the 5:00." She said.

Last year, Ms. Lee's district, there are full-time wife pick handiwork, saying that earn more than 3,000 yuan a month, did not bear thinking, paid the deposit material, after doing things,http://reverse-seo.net, people collect things has "disappeared." She also wanted to open a clothing store business, but one afterwards to invest hundreds of thousands,http://www.osake-ichiba.com, to give up.

Sometimes,chaussure tn pas cher, she would feel wronged, will be angry, but good-natured very considerate of her husband. Late last year, Ms. Lee, her husband decided to venture, set up their own milk beverage companies,http://student.fkip.uns.ac.id/activity/p/844692/, two of their relatives to borrow 400,000 yuan. "We did not live to save money, all borrowed, I also support him to try again, but did not imagine success. If you lose ......" Lee is very low, "I really can not."

Henan Business Daily reporter through QQ retrieve "housewife", "full-time wife," "full-time mom" and other words, the emergence of more than 670 related QQ group. "Had to take care of children and their families, I volunteered to give up his job,http://accesio.com/go.cgi, and now feel big pressure, Zuosha not free, what things have to be restricted." Netizen "orange," said her full-time wife all day to get rid of things downtown heart, but has remained a "helpless."

Interactive

So what's your trick to help full-time wife out of the "vicious circle"

Yesterday, the Henan Business Daily Sina microblogging published on the "full-time wife" of the topic,scarpe hogan, causing many users attention.

"If want to go out to work, then weigh your income and expenses nanny job, and if it is profitable, individuals are willing, then went to work right." Netizens "utopian" said. Mr. � friends said: "Be a full-time wife will live, can not have both fish and bear's paw, let alone children, family and work."

Netizen "Dutch months Fantasy" that "full-time wife's life is not terrible, not the yoke, the key is a woman not for children, families lose consciousness of self-cultivation and self-improvement. Woman's greatest career is to become her own."